WEBINAR: I REFUSE TO BE A PUBLIC SUCCESS AND A PRIVATE MESS
August 11, 2025 | 7:30–9:30pm EST | Live Virtual Event
You’re doing everything right—but behind closed doors, everything feels wrong.
You’ve got the titles, the résumé, the degrees.
You walk into boardrooms with confidence, handle business, show up for everybody—and your life looks good on paper.
But let’s talk about what’s not on paper:
- You’re snapping at your kids before school because you’re running on fumes.
- Your partner barely recognizes the woman he married—because you’re never fully present.
- You cry in the car between meetings, straighten your crown, and keep pushing.
- You’re dressed in your best—White House Black Market suit, Louboutins clicking, Mac beat flawless—but you haven’t eaten all day, and you’re driving like a maniac because you’re always late.
- You’re leading at work… but feel lost at home.
Sound familiar?
This isn’t just burnout.
This is the breakdown before the breakdown.
This is why I created this webinar.
After over 26 years of serving my country in the military, I had my own private collapse—while still showing up in public like everything was fine.
I was polished, successful, productive… and absolutely empty inside.
I know what it’s like to win at work and lose yourself in the process.
I said enough.
And now, I help high-achieving women just like you stop performing and start healing.
This 2-hour webinar is not about motivation or “self-care” tips.
This is about pure honesty, deep internal shifts, and real tools to help you stop living in survival mode.
What You’ll Get in These 2 Hours:
🗸 The real reason you’re still overwhelmed—even with a schedule, systems, and boundaries
🗸 How high-functioning women hide behind productivity, titles, and routines
🗸 Tools I used to rebuild from the inside out when my discipline wasn’t enough
🗸 How to stop showing up for others while silently neglecting yourself
🗸 A step-by-step breakdown of how to reclaim your peace and power—without quitting your job or blowing up your life
🗸 How to recognize the signs when you’re slipping back into survival and what to do about it
🗸 Space to be real, not impressive
You will leave with clarity, language for what you’ve been carrying, and the permission to live differently—because you’ve earned that.
This Is for You If:
✨ You’ve been labeled “strong” your whole life but no one checks if you’re okay
✨ You feel like you’re “failing” at home even while you’re climbing higher professionally
✨ You’re tired of pretending that everything is okay
✨ You’re high-achieving, high-functioning… and privately holding it all together with a thread
✨ You know something has to shift—but you’re not sure where to start
This Is Why You Need to Be in the Room:
This isn’t one of those “take notes and forget about it” webinars.
This is where the mirror gets held up and you finally get to exhale.
You’ll be in a space created by someone who knows what it’s like to wear the mask and has done the work to take it off.
If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to reclaim yourself—this is it.
Because you can’t afford to keep living like this. And you already know that.
About Your Host — DeBlair Tate
Chief. Executive Life Coach. Survivor.
After 26 years in uniform, I traded my rank for realignment. Now I coach powerful women to stop performing and start showing up fully in their own lives.
I’m not speaking from a book—I’m speaking from the breakdowns, the late-night cries, the therapy, the silent guilt, and the work it took to stop being a public success and a private mess.
This isn’t just my job—it’s my assignment. And I’m showing up for you.
This Is Your Moment.
You don’t need another podcast. Another planner. Another motivational quote.
You need a reset.
Come sit in the room.
Not because you’re weak—but because you’re ready to be honest, whole, and well.
Register Now — Don’t Wait.
Register Here →
Seats are limited for a reason: this space is intentional, sacred, and real.
We don’t perform here. We get free.