Have you spent the last 10-30 years showing up for everyone—except yourself?
Your dreams? On pause.
Your needs? Ignored.
Your peace? M.I.A. because you’re too busy showing up for everyone else.
You’re the one everyone relies on—from boardrooms to your own kitchen table—but when was the last time someone asked you, “How are you really doing?”
And now, you’re starting to feel it. The burnout. The pressure. The quiet breakdown behind the polished version of you that the world claps for.
Let’s be real: no one’s coming to rescue you.
You either keep pretending you’re good—or you finally call it what it is.
You’re tired. You’re over it. And you’re ready for you again.
RAF-Live is the space where you stop performing and start unpacking.
It’s where the strong woman finally gets to exhale.
No more smiling through the chaos.
No more looking like a success while suffering in silence.
It’s time to reset—on your terms.
We’re unlearning survival mode.
We’re choosing softness over struggle.
And we’re finally putting you at the top of your priority list.
Pull up – 12th - 14th September 2025, and unplug from the noise.
This is your time to get clear, get grounded, and get free.
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  That pattern of starting and stopping, promising to do better next week, pushing your well-being to the side?
Yeah, that stops here.
RAF Live is breaking down the lies that tell you you have to do it all, look perfect doing it, and never ask for help.
Seats are limited—because this ain’t a typical conference. It’s a high-touch, deep reset.
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RAF Live is for the woman who’s been getting it done at work, holding it down at home, and now wants more than a to-do list.
She wants her life back.
This year, we’re not bouncing back.
We’re burning the blueprint and building something better.
This isn’t just about “balance”—it’s about alignment. Real joy. Real rest.
We’re resetting the whole system.
I'M READY TO PRESS THE HARD RESET BUTTONThis opportunity is tailor-made for accomplished women in leadership who:
THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE TO BE IN THE ROOM!
Real Stories, Real Power
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We’re bringing together dope women from all over—corporate bosses, creatives, healers, entrepreneurs.
They’ve been through the fire—burnout, breakdowns, grief, growth—and they’re pulling up to share the real, not just the highlight reel.
You’ll leave feeling seen, inspired, and reminded that you’re not out here struggling alone.
"Attending the RAF Live Conference was a game-changer for me. Hearing the success stories of women leaders who had faced and conquered adversity inspired me to step up, take risks, and achieve my goals fearlessly."
–Michelle, Entrepreneur
Practical Skills & Strategies
This isn’t just motivation—it’s real-life strategies you can walk out with.
Workshops, panels, sessions—all curated to help you protect your peace, set real boundaries, and stop overextending yourself.
We’re not here to “fix” you. We’re here to equip you.
"The conference was a game-changer for me. It equipped me with practical strategies to overcome imposter syndrome and self-doubt. I learned techniques to set and achieve ambitious goals, manage my time effectively, and prioritize self-care. The event empowered me to take control of my career and personal life, helping me strike a better work-life balance and pursue my passions with confidence."
–Beverly
Community That Gets It
RAF-Live is a vibe. It’s a room full of women who’ve walked in your shoes and are choosing themselves now.
No masks. No judgment.
Just real ones who are ready to support and uplift each other beyond this event.
"Attending the Women's RAF Live conference was a transformative experience for me. The networking opportunities were phenomenal! I met incredible women from diverse backgrounds and industries who inspired me to reach new heights. Through the connections I made at the event, I landed a mentor who has been instrumental in guiding my career. I'm grateful for the powerful network I gained from attending this empowering event."
–Amanda
Healing + Growth? We Do Both.
RAF Live honors every part of you. You’ll be seen, heard, and supported as a whole woman—not just a title or achievement.
From healing sessions to mindset shifts, we’re creating a container for you to soften, surrender, and rise in your full power.
You’ll leave lighter. Clearer. Stronger. Ready.
"I cannot express enough how attending the Women's RAF Live conference impacted my personal growth. The event provided a supportive and inclusive environment where I connected with like-minded women. The shared stories and experiences created a sense of solidarity and belonging. I learned valuable skills for effective communication, self-love, and increased confidence. The conference gave me the tools and inspiration to break through barriers and pursue my passions fearlessly. I'm forever grateful for the empowerment I gained from this incredible event."
–Shantel
A Safe Space to Be Real
This is where the strong women lay it down.
We talk about the stuff nobody sees—anxiety, pressure, burnout, loneliness, identity shifts.
And we talk about the tools to actually do something about it.
Here, you’re safe to not be okay.
And you’ll leave knowing exactly how to move forward.
"The women's RAF Live conference provided a truly safe and supportive space for women to share their personal stories. I was hesitant at first to open up about my experiences, but the atmosphere created by the organizers and the supportive audience made all the difference. The empathetic and non-judgmental environment allowed me to express myself authentically, leading to a profound sense of healing and empowerment. I am immensely grateful for this event and the connections I made with other incredible women."
–Suzette
Life Beyond
✱ You’ll move like the CEO of your life—not just your job.
✱ You’ll keep your energy sacred and your peace protected.
✱ You’ll stop negotiating your boundaries and rest like it’s your right.
✱ You’ll stop shrinking. Period.
✱ You’ll take back your time and make it count.
✱ You’ll be aligned in your money, your health, and your mindset.
✱ You’ll speak up for yourself, and mean it.
✱ You’ll stop overgiving and start receiving.
✱ You’ll drop habits that don’t serve you, and keep what feeds you.
✱ You’ll go from talking about change to actually living it.
WHEN YOU LEAVE THIS ROOM, YOU WON’T BE THE SAME.
MEET YOUR HOST
DeBlair Tate
DeBlair Tate is that coach—the one high-achieving women go to when they’re ready to stop pretending and start living on purpose.
When it comes to real leadership, resilience, and transformation—She is the blueprint.
She’s an Executive Life Coach for CEO’s & Public Figures, Master Resilience Trainer, 2x Author, and founder of the 8Figured Brand. A former Pro Athlete and Military Training Instructor, DeBlair is all about real results and real healing.
She teaches women how to stop surviving and start leading—from the inside out.
With over 25 years of service in the U.S. Air Force, DeBlair is a Chief Master Sergeant who’s mastered the art of leading with strength and heart. Whether she’s coaching clients, serving her country, or building with her all-female motorcycle crew and sorority sisters—she walks it like she talks it.
But above all, she’s here to help women take off the cape, take back their power, and take control of their lives—without guilt.
Frequently Asked Questions
"I'm too busy to attend."
"I'm concerned about the cost."
"I don't know anyone attending."
"I've attended similar events before."
"I'm not sure if the conference will be relevant or beneficial for me."
Don’t let fear, guilt, or “maybe next time” stop you.
This is your sign.
Your reset is waiting.
RAF Live. September 2025.
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It’s time to stop pretending you’re fine. It’s time to prioritize you.
This isn’t just a conference. It’s your comeback.
A full reset for the woman behind the success.
The real you. The whole you. The healed you.
I'M READY